Well, I am still trying to figure out who I am, and enjoying every minute of it. I love growing things. I have raised 3 joyful children, so now on to the soil. Really quite the same. Sometimes you get bugs, and fungus, and sometimes you get awesome fruit. It's a trial and error thing, like life. One day at a time. It can seem as though your garden is doomed one day, and then all of a sudden.. BAM ... fruit , and lots of it. So hang in there, and look forward to the fruits that await you, and be proud of all you did to get it there. Then .. lay back and enjoy!!
I like to hang out with organic people, who don't believe the first solution to seeing a bug is spraying all kinds of poison in the air.. for heavens sake.. squash it.. just like when you were a kid..
"If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves!" -- Thomas Edison